Post Lesson::: Reflections

(A) It was mentioned that "the mark of puberty between the ages of 13 and 17 signalled emotional maturity – a sign of readiness for a relationship". Do you agree that between 13 and 17 is a good time to go steady? And why?

Not necessarily.
"the mark of puberty between the ages of 13 and 17 signalled emotional maturity – a sign of readiness for a relationship". "
yes it may be the mark that we have become more "mature"
but it is also when our hormones are raging
it will cause some unnecassary problems and decisions made
as most between these age limit will tend to be more curious about the opposite sex
but that doesn't mean we are ready for a relationship
that is not a sign of readiness for a serious relationship
we both do not agree that it is a suitable time to go steady as this is the period of time where we should be focusing on our studies instead of getting into any sort of relationship. Besides most of our parents would not be pleased to know if we have a steady. They want us to have a bright future and most parents would definitely object to us having a relationship as the relationship acts as a distraction towards

Going Steady and Inteligenht Dating (Part I)

Activity 2- What do you really want?

-Wish list
-Begin with the end in mind
-Be clear about what's really important to you and where you won't compromise
-Be choosy

Register 7 And 8

-Taller than me or same height
-Not balding XD
-Both can do without boys
-Play sports
-Can sing

Sesssion 1: Astuteness in Revealing Information

You should have your COOL identity. COOL stands for:

1. Cannot reveal information
2. Original
3. Out of this world
4. Something that you Like

Any information that you reveal online is public. Once you placed the information online it is...

1. Freely accessible to anyone

• All information you reveal online is freely accessible to anyone

2. Not within your control

• You cannot effectively control who looks at your online information. E.g.Friendster, Blogger

etc

Practice Selective Disclosure of information. There is no need to lie in order to protect yourself. You become a liar if you habitually tell lies.

INFORMATION THAT YOU REVEAL ONLINE IS PUBLIC AND NOT PRIVATE!!!

Session 4 : Cyber Bullying

Cyber Bullying?

well let's say its when using Interactive Technology to

• Humiliate
• Frighten
• Target

another person.

Cyber Bullying is more destructive than physical bullying as

• it occurs 24/7
• there is anonymity
• the bully need not be there in person
• most victims feel helpless

Speak Up if you know someone is being bullied (including yourself)

you could also Stop responding or Block the bully out completely

Always remember to Save the evidence

Practice Selective Disclosure of information

You can also Offer Help to others

WORDS HAVE POWER, ONLINE OR OFFLINE

BE RESPECTFUL AND RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT YOU SAY!!

Session 3: Cyber Gaming

Possible Consequences of Net Addiction

• Embrace Wrong Values - Poor Character
• Confusion with reality - Poor Outlook in Life
• Time Stolen - Poor developed Skills

How to overcome the addiction

• Do what is necessary First
• Set Goals
• Get Help 
• Think about what u may lose

PURSUE YOUR DREAMS WITH FOCUS!

DON'T GET ADDICTED TO THE INTERNET!

Session 2: Dangerous Content [Cyber Crap]

Internet Content may be Unregulated

1. Hate Sites
2. Fake Sites
3. Chain Mail
4. Hoaxes and
5. Scams

Do NOT forward Unverified Information

Check with reliable Sources

• online 
• offline

Copyright ©

• Piracy - Use other's work without paying E.g Downloading mp3 ,video files, software.
• Plagiarism -Use other's work and pass off as your own

RESPECT OTHER'S RIGHTS!!  ©

Session 5G: Cyber Relationships- For Girls only

A sense of excitement
Makes you feel safe

don't authorize anyone who sends you a request
Selective disclosure of information

Be friendly and pleasant, don't FLIRT